She recently asked me, in reference to a desire - a goal - a dream - a vision of the future- that she has; a future that she knows... will be; inspite of beloveds close to telling her that it is an impossible dream; and she was wondering what's so impossible about it; what do those messages mean to her?
My response, simply put:
1) If you can desire something, it can be yours; because indeed you dream of something, want it, think of it as a goal... because it exists in your range of probable futures! That is why you can think of it or want it in the first place! It’s all in reverse- the future impacts the past! That seemingly impossible dream is impacting you from the future...! All you need to do is align your energy field with it! In more linear language, because it is a blue print option, because it's encodements lay within your energy fields, do you see it as a possibility or/and want it!
Thus Desire's sprout... seemingly on their own accord and in their own time... when required… because indeed it is the 'voice' you have placed within, to remind you of those aspects of self that you are ready at any point to explore, experience, expand or eliminate; and your desire is the propeller... holding the seeker to the sought; the beginning to the end.
2) Thus if it’s not in another's range of probable futures, they don't desire it...think of it...cant 'see' it ...and thus they may think of it as some impossible dream! They don't have those energy coding's within to tune into it! Nothing within matches that frequency!
3) However, if we live with the understanding that there is 'no one other than I'... then we use every 'external' voice as a message from Self to self... or a message from universal Self. We hear from the outside, those feelings thoughts of ours, that maybe deeply subconscious and thus we cannot access them and remain unaware of their energy signatures. Thus these voices of theirs can be used to become aware of your subconscious thoughts: sometimes assurances from subconscious mind... sometimes... as in this case... subconscious doubts! And you use these voices, to either reaffirm their positive messages from Self to self... or to confront your doubts and eliminate them!
In this case, she uses the voices of her beloveds as mirrors showing her those areas, those thoughts and feelings, those energy signatures (deep within) that are still not in sync with this probable future! Only in becoming aware of these static wires in energy terms... can she unplug them! Can she use her conscious mind to direct those subconscious thoughts more in accordance with what she chooses in the Now! And in that as the subconscious and conscious mind - energy field - are in tandem with the energy of that possible future - does it attract that future in more physical ways... does it move from possibility to probability... and with critical mass sustained belief and focus into your physical!!
4) At a deeper level, when dreams 'just' happen to start fading... don't hang on to them ... for they have done what they arose for. Thus having accomplished that - they exist not in your probable futures anymore- and thus they 'happen' to start fading within you too! Yes often the conscious self/mind grapples with this change... indeed tries to want it... but increasingly finds the desire becoming less... or situations occur taking you away from that previous desire... you wonder why... but a new future is now impacting you!