Dearest all,
 
Some one asked me how do we move out of suffering- and my response was by moving into the larger picture!
 
For if you really observe suffering is not in the hurtful or difficult experiences of life…   it is not in lack (of money or love) … for truly most of the ‘suffering’ arises when you cannot understand the purpose behind it all...!  When you have no answer to the “Why”…!  When you conclude   that the universe… or god or life or the other is uncaring, unfair….! When you feel pitted against a higher stronger force ‘against’ you!  This is what really creates the suffering.

Suffering if you really observe is not in the other not understanding you, but self not understanding self or what to do ...! Suffering if you really observe is not so much in being  pained by external things... for it is not they that disturb ... you but your own judgment of them!And it is in your power to wipe out that judgment now.

Even lack which is closely linked with suffering... is only an area where spirit ...consciousness... the larger picture hasn't been experienced... It is not an area of emptiness, it is not an area of absence, it is not an area of poverty, it is not an area of need, and it is not an area of scarcity. It is an area where the fullness of the larger picture or consciousness  has not been experienced...

And  when you see the larger picture… when you understand how it all conspires in your favor… when you real-ize it’s all willfully chosen … when you accept there is no other to hurt you… when this permeates you (in any area it spills into all) ....  when you move into this embrace…'suffering' leaves… opportunities for growth arise...  and your heart sings the oldie goldie carpenters number... ‘goodbye loneliness and pain; hello love and joy and beauty...”

And dearest all, I share this because I see it daily through the personal sessions I do ... for every time a  beloved comes to me crying and hands wringing... and they understand the larger picture behind it... the whys ... why they have put it in.... how the other is not a monster but soul mate... how its in their hands and they are not powerless... something shifts. Something subtly yes, but something vitally too. And thus when we really want to heal, help, aid another... the best gift we can give them is a peek into their larger picture.

And then more and more hearts will sing  ‘goodbye loneliness, powerlessness, suffering  and pain; hello love and joy and beauty....and stillness and passion...and freedom...and....”

Love from my heart to yours
Divyaa Kummar
'Too blessed, to be stressed! Too anointed, to be disappointed"-Unknown

Dearest all,
 
Many of us say "I believe in.... but worry a little because after all I am human!" And in response to them:
 
You cannot 'worry' and 'believe' at the same time! For one precludes the other! They cannot hold the same  space within your mind! One's energy signature would cancel the other out! Worry is indeed showing you that your belief is not hundred percent- indeed it is not a belief as much as a hope or desire; or an intellectual understanding, or a tool of positive thinking that you are using! Indeed if you use the worry productively- answer its doubts, figure out its source, you may arrive at what stands in the way of your belief!
 
'Belief (simply put) works at two levels- one is one the current issue in concern and what I will call subsidiary beliefs;  and the second deeper level of belief is in Life or Self itself and what I will call core beliefs.  When the second is firmly in place, when you know you are creator, when you know how you create your reality,  when you understand why you  put certain experiences into your blue prints as possibilities or cornerstones,  when you know the 'you' is not only current self but the Higher-Self  You... thus when you know that reality  always conspires in your favor  as something you have chosen to explore, experience, expand or move away from;  when you live from the macroscopic not microscopic view .... it is easier to hold strong current beliefs.
 
So if you ask me how not to worry- indeed my response will be first explore, strengthen ,expand   your core beliefs- your view of self, the other, life and god- subjects like good and bad;  karma  free will and destiny;  desires and fears and purposes.... for when core beliefs are strongly mired in understanding and awareness of the larger picture, subsidiary beliefs automatically become positive and  limiting beleifs automatically begin to dismantle... Worry increasingly decreases....!
 
And how does one expand ones core beliefs?  It's called the path of gyan... attend discourses, read books, explore via websites, introspect, contemplate, meditate... make like minded groups....  there are so many many options available these days... bring a little into your life ...and if you already are well on this path of expanding your core beliefs remember there is no point when you should think you know it all.... for there is always more to know and be... and thus reflect in your reality... for you not only move from worry... but into a 24/7 state of bliss... beyond concern of worr or joy... but that's another story!
 
So expand your core beliefs... live in this expanded space and energy signature .... and worry and fear cannot co-exist within this new 'You'! 
 
 
Love from my heart to yours
Divyaa Kummar
www.divyaakummar.com
Move from being a finite person gazing into infinity; into an infinite being gazing into a finite reality