DO YOU REACT OR RESPOND A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the apple of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for the office so he asked the wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. The mother, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter. The boy playfully went to the medicine bottle and, fascinated with its color drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child showed signs of poisoning the mother took him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband. When he came in and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just four words. What were the four words? What is the implication of this story? Check with the answers only after you have tried to come up with your own. Please scroll down ...
The husband just said “I love You Darling " The husband's totally unexpected reaction is proactive behavior. He is indeed a genius in human relationships. The child is dead. He can never come back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her. If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. A journey of a thousand miles begins with but with a single step Acceptance in its purest meaning… acceptance of the child’s blueprint- wife's mistake and learning ;of his own role......acceptance of moving forward... it is it is....
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