Make a list of that a partner will bring into your life… focus on the essence rather than specifics. Now review where that essence already exists in your life, even if not through the special other. As you focus on that, you draw it to you in more intimate ways. And your focus switches from the needy lack consciousness to the positive abundant consciousness. 

MIRRORS THEY ARE
Consider some of the people in your life at present. Using a two-columned page, record each of these in the left-hand column. Say next to each in the right-hand column what are they reflecting to you. Or what you are projecting onto them. For example: Is there a particularly loving person in your world? What does this person tell you about yourself? Conversely, is there someone with whom you are at odds or with whom you are in conflict? Can you identify what "negative" qualities they are showing you that you have?  Can you see a pattern in all that you have recorded? Explain in writing to yourself what this pattern is (or what the patterns are, if there is more than one pattern).

BE HAPPY AND MAKE HAPPY!
Do you feel powerless in relationships? Always doing what others want? Every fortnight do one thing more for self and one thing less just to please another… set a pace which is easy- and gradually arrive at the right balance! As you fulfill self more and more, you will automatically be there for others in meaningful ways.

MIRROR MIRROR ON THE WALL WHO IS THE PRETTIEST OT THEM ALL